Meet the Quokka’s.
Officially the happiest animal in the world.
Most day’s I wake up feeling like a Quokka, however before I moved up here to Cairns I felt like real Numbat!
People often ask me why Cairns? It’s such a long way away from Sydney, your family, your friends, your colleagues and clients?
I have a long list of reasons for my move however when it really comes down to it I have to say it’s happiness. My happiness. I simply had to make a conscious decision to feed my happiness and what it means to me.
Better explained in the Tale of Two Wolves.
An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy.
“It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith.The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.”
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”
The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”
The message in this tale is the importance of acknowledging one's constant experience of both negative and positive thoughts and feelings throughout our daily lives. Our strength comes from our self talk, activities and our choices.
The more negative thoughts and experiences we feed ourselves, the less our motivation becomes and our chance of becoming depressed, stressed, sad, afraid, fearful, resentful etc increase. A downward spiral of self-sabotage.
The same is true with our positive thoughts. The more postive thoughts and experiences we feed ourselves the stronger our motivation becomes and our chances of happiness, embracing more experiences, passion, engagement, sharing and fulfilment increase. An upward spiral of growth and of achieving more from life.
Some tips to help you achieve your goals sooner.
1. Align your choices (financial and personal) with your values. Doing so gives us greater purpose, motivation, clarity and on the fast track to achieving our goals; because at the core we are achieving them for ourselves and not simply to keep up with the Joneses.
2. Invest in activities that leverage your time. My clients, staff, colleagues and friend are my best sales people. By investing in their success I leverage my time which heightens my own chances of success.
3. Keep a journal of how you felt when you had an excellent day. It’s crucial to read your entries when you’re having a bad day. Doing so can get your nut out of your rut. My journal diary has a Red Cross sticker on it and a message “Break open in case of emergency!”
4. Change your environment. This could be a physical geographic relocation, new circles of friends, reading material, activities, health, spiritual, relationships etc. Say yes to that which helps you, and no to that which hinders you.
5. Make your goals SMART (Specific, Measurable, Aspirational, Realistic & Time Bound).
6. Help someone who is not in a position to return the favour.
About Peter Horsfield
Peter Horsfield in an Authorised Representative and Investsure Holdings Pty Ltd ABN 16 050 286 630 as trustee for Horsfield Family Trust ABN 55 609 068 513 is a Corporate Authorised Representative of Infocus Securities Australia Pty Ltd ABN 47 097 797 049 AFSL and Australian Credit Licence No. 236523.
This is a photo of my backyard where I now live in Cairns.Yes it's on a golf course, but I dont play golf....yet!
However I would like to share with you a story about my inspiration to slow down, reassess, and get real about how to live life.
An investment banker was at holidaying up here in Port Douglas and ventured down to the pier when a small boat with a fisherman docked. Inside the boat were several large coral trout and crayfish. The banker complimented the fisherman on the quality of his fish and crayfish and asked how long it took to catch them.
“Only a little while" said the fisherman. The banker asked him “Why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more?”
The fisherman replied saying that he had enough to support himself and his family’s immediate needs.
“But what do you do with the rest of your time?” quizzed the banker.
“I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a rest with my wife, stroll into the town, play a little golf, go do 4WD in the Daintree, play guitar, stroll around the markets here on Sunday’s and have a drink/BBQ some evenings with my mates and their families. I have a full and busy life.” said the fisherman.
Seeing an opportunity to help the banker said “I hold an Institute of Management MBA and could help you".
"You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat". The banker said.
"With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several more boats. Eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Then instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own crayfish and seafood cannery".
The banker went on."You would control the product, processing, and distribution. However you would need to leave here and move to the city then probably multiple cities around the globe from where you will run your expanding enterprise for both tax and cots reasons.”
The fisherman asked, “How long will this all take?”
To which the now enthusiastic banker replied, “About 15 – 20 years.”
“But what then?” Asked the fisherman.
The banker laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO and list your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions!”
“Millions – then what?”
The banker said, “Then you would retire!". "Move to a place like here at Port Douglas where you can sleep late, fish a little, play a little golf and your kids, rest in the afternoons with your wife, stroll into town in the evenings, or walk the local markets, play with your guitar, go 4WD, have time for a drink/BBQ during the evenings with your mates and their families.
And the fisher man smiled back at the banker and wished the him a good day and all the best on his holiday here in paradise!
Here are some tips I apply in my life!
About Peter Horsfield
Exercising feels good; traffic to work and home is minimal, I do my activities proactively, any urgent matters are addressed quickly and effectively and the results of my efforts are visible to me.
I thought for the longest of time that these perfect days are what I should be aspiring for and successful people experience this nearly everyday; but I was wrong.
I discovered in my work, finances, health, relationships and inner growth, as it is in nature too much of anything is detrimental i.e. blue skies>drought, rain>flood, pressure>rock, stagnation>poison etc.
When too much work is flooding in, I feel like I’m drowning and when no work is coming in, it feels like a drought. When I put myself under too much pressure, I harden then crack and when things become too easy, profits stagnate or worse decline.
On top of these natural changing business climates, are the days within each season; happy days, sad days, introspective days, outgoing days etc.
Days that not only do I want to throw the towel in but I actively resist doing the work that I concsiously know I need to be doing. I don’t quite understand why I do that while at the same time another part of me finds it enjoyable and empowering. “Pity parties” maybe the polite name for these moments but I like to call them my “Stuff it days”.
Days that I feel like coasting through with minimal input, I have a list of activities but I only do enough work to convince myself and justify to others that “I’ve done something with my time”. On days such as these if you ask me to do something, I will most likely accept but not act immediately as I’m having more fun doing other things that interest me “maybe writing my blog”. The result is important activities get put aside until they become urgent. Call it “procrastinating” if you must however in my defence lacking motivation in one area greater inspires motivation to do other important activities in my life such as exercising, self-reflection, planning etc.…
Days I’m pumped and eager to get in and do the work, then I when I get into work and I quickly fall into a “daily grind” or coasting day. These days are really frustrating as I held initial such high expectations of myself. The same frustration comes over me when I am motivated, pumped and getting through my activities however other urgent matters come up requiring my attention when all I want to do is get my list of activities done.
Perfect days. Exercising is easy, traffic to work and home is minimal, I do my activities proactively, any urgent matters are address quickly and effectively and the results of my efforts are visible to me.
What I have learnt is that I can’t control business climates or my day to day feelings, however I can acknowledge them and know them for what they are. And by doing so I now make choices with better perspective.
Here are some tips I apply!
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Personally I find achieving my goals difficult. Often I just put them to one side and hope that they will be achieved by themselves. Dreaming!!! Yeah I know, however in my experience life often finds a way of getting in the way, or making the goal I think about, inconvenient or increasing stress in other areas. So I give up!
Nine time out of ten I give up, I give up on even trying to attempt my goals. The one time out of ten is because I’m fed up with where I am and fearful of what might happen if I don’t. Looking back my personal conclusion is that only when my fear is greater than my procrastination do I begin to take achieving my goals seriously and commit.
Fear maybe a great motivator however from experience fear as a repetitive motivator has lead me to burnout, withdrawal, self-doubt, mental illness (depression) and wrong choices. All of which delayed me achieving my bigger goals or go so far as derailing me from achieving it at all.
A big failure of mine in the past has been listening to the noise in the world and good intentioned opinions of those important to me, telling me their views of what being a success in life looks like.
Am I living their life or mine?
Call it maturity, rebirth, taking ownership of my own life, or simply being true to my authenticity; however I now choose and approach my goals with respect and quiet reserve. I have documented a list of all the personal experiences I would like to have had in living a life on purpose. I have prioritised these experiences into this year, next year and years beyond along with what I need to do to make these experiences a reality and the help I might need or not.
There are things in life that are deeply personal to me. These “gold nuggets” are waiting to be mined and cashed in, so I can go dig for more of my “gold nuggets”, however mining for gold is dirty, gritty, exhausting, labour and resource intensive at the same time the input is all based on the assumption gold will be found, before actually finding it. I can’t find gold without digging!
Here are some tips I apply to achieve my goals sooner!
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